Sexual ignorance
Aug. 2nd, 2005 07:10 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
The sexual ignorance of some people makes me want to weep. Truly.
Sextips usually makes me laugh or want to cry. People insecure about whether they're 'normal.' Women who think it's unusual that they can't come from P-I-V sex (honey, the clit is a woman's main sexual organ!). People who think their lovers aren't dedicated to them because their lovers look at porn or have sexual fantasies. Men who think that wives are for clean and proper sex, and only sluts suck cock.
At least most of the people on sextips are there to educate themselves. Unfortunately, the people who probably most need an education about human sexuality are often the ones most insecure about seeking that information. . .
Sextips usually makes me laugh or want to cry. People insecure about whether they're 'normal.' Women who think it's unusual that they can't come from P-I-V sex (honey, the clit is a woman's main sexual organ!). People who think their lovers aren't dedicated to them because their lovers look at porn or have sexual fantasies. Men who think that wives are for clean and proper sex, and only sluts suck cock.
At least most of the people on sextips are there to educate themselves. Unfortunately, the people who probably most need an education about human sexuality are often the ones most insecure about seeking that information. . .
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Date: 2005-08-03 01:54 pm (UTC)I just finished reading the Janus report, and it explains quite a bit about some of the attitudes that you see in the country.
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Date: 2005-08-03 02:36 pm (UTC)Oh my gosh, I don't think I could have put that any better. I come in contact with people thinking this way on an almost daily basis, because a friend of mine is that way. I just don't understand it sometimes.
*sigh*