Maybe it's more accurate to say: "For every personality trait that is off-putting to others in some way, the person who has that trait must be getting some kind of benefit/use from maintaining the personality trait."
The most obvious benefit is that it's easier to stay yourself and NOT to change, generally.
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Date: 2005-09-20 05:39 pm (UTC)The most obvious benefit is that it's easier to stay yourself and NOT to change, generally.