People seem to be striving some sort of ideal when no true one exists. I find it much more fulfilling to enjoy my relationships and experiences on their own terms, not somebody else's. I've never had to ever post a question on sextips (or any other community, really) simply because I can sort things out for myself and follow through on the steps it will take to fix things.

Or maybe people just like pre-emptively asking questions, looking for validation. Don't know.

I find it hilarious when one post will be about how to get a guy to "last longer" in bed, and then next will be about to get a guy off in the first place. The recent one about a guy whose girl orgasms too fast made me smile. It works both ways.

I think a lot of problems could be fixed if people didn't view sex as a singular act. I consider intercourse just a part of lovemaking. Girls might orgasm more during sex if they were warmed up first. Guys might not orgasm so fast if sex was it. I like variety in my lovemaking.


The ultimate hilarity is the difference between a guy and a girl posting about wanting more oral sex. Guys will get a lecture about being more understanding. Girls will get a lecture about finding a new guy and not having to put up with it. Generalizing, but you know its true.

I'll stop there lest I write more than you have. Oh wait, nevermind.